I am not a doctor..but I know what I am doing, I play one on tv!....lol

Okay people I have just finished endulging in one of my many vices...Grey's Anatomy...and it was the best episode to date since Denny was on the show. So finally Izzie and Karev are resuming their relationship....go back a few posts and I tell you how much I love them and Yang is finally moving on from Burke, with "Hot Military Super Doc"....okay thats my long name for him at least for now but I will call him "RED" until I find out his name (he sports a red beard....trust me he is "scruffy sexy"). Anyway I spent this morning trying to familiarize myself with the online class I am taking. Already I have some stuff to read and class starts in a little over a week. I dont mind it but soon as I saw I needed to read some papers I thought "OH crap, I am back in school".
My Hubby is going through some things with school and ofcourse he does his silent bit. I learned a long time ago he will talk to me when he is ready, but its annoying waiting for him to express his feelings. And then when he does, he drops bomb shells and just walks away. He is one of those people that will just say stuff like " I have cancer, goodbye". No explanation , no lets discuss it , nothing. Its like , he says it , the world has ended and we are not going try to save it. And I hate that. but I deal. But what gets me is when I do give an opinion or even try to say..try it this way...he is up in arms about how I dont understand or will never get it. So I just listen...I sit and listen, but even when I sit and listen he thinks I dont care. There is no pleasing , so *shrugs* I ride it out.
I can see this is going be a long week , but I have made an "October/December Resolution" try to do the oposite of what I normally do. If I usually offer sage advice to the unenlightened...."do nothing..say nothing"....I am tired of repeating myself and doing the same thing over and over again. I am usually a "Fixer", I have a superhero complex that makes me think when I see something wrong I should swoop in and try and fix. But I have to realise alot of people dont appreciate my help....so I refuse to expend my energy where it is not wanted. If someone wants me, my opinion , or help or just want to talk.....I want to hear those words. I will do nothing until I hear those words..I dont care how fucking painful it is to say them. I am used to fighting..to being the active party...no more...I am going to be as Zen as Buddha...I am going with the flow. Picture me floating down stream...peaceful as can be (faceup people...I am floating faceup!)